Success Tips for Life

Success Tips for Life is written for Business Owners, Business Leaders, and Professionals. Life & Business Coach Stephanie Ward is the author of the FREE Special Report "7 Steps to Attract More Clients in Less Time" - grab your copy, plus free monthly business building tips, at www.fireflycoaching.com.

The Inside

Mpj042442200001Have you ever noticed how often we think about things outside of ourselves?  We worry and wonder about what other people think about us.  We think about other people and how they are doing.

But how often do you consciously inquire as to how you are feeling at any given moment?  I was re-reading Eckhart Tolle's book, Practicing the Power of Now (his new book, A New Earth is also a must read - http://www.eckharttolle.com) and one section really struck me.  Here's what he said:

"Make it a habit to monitor your mental and emotional state through self-observation.  'Am I at ease this moment?' is a good question to ask yourself frequently.  Or you can ask, 'What's going on inside me at this moment?'  Be at least as interested in what goes on inside you as what happens outside.  If you get the inside right, the outside will fall into place."

Only having to get the inside right sure seems a lot easier, and more peaceful, than spending time trying to make everything on the outside right.  So why not start tending to your interior and see what happens?

Life & Business Coach Stephanie Ward is the author of the FREE special report “7 Steps to Attract More Clients in Less Time” grab your copy, plus free monthly business building tips, at: http://www.fireflycoaching.com.

June 05, 2008 in Attention, Knowing Yourself, Peace, Present in the Now | Permalink | Comments (0)

Don't "Should" on Yourself

Mpj042220000001Do you ever find yourself saying (or thinking) "I should ...''?  Whenever you notice that you are feeling like you "should" do something, stop.  This is a sign to consider whether or not it is really something you want to choose to do.

That's right, you get to choose.  You don't "have to" do a lot of things.  Many times we cross our own boundaries and do things we don't really want to do because we are trying to please other people.  Remember, don't "should" on yourself.  You'll have more peace and you'll feel good about the things you do decide to do.

Life & Business Coach Stephanie Ward is the author of the FREE special report “7 Steps to Attract More Clients in Less Time” grab your copy, plus free monthly business building tips, at: http://www.fireflycoaching.com.

December 19, 2007 in Boundaries, Choice, Courage, Peace | Permalink | Comments (0)

Recipe for Instant Peace

Mpj043309700001_2I've created a recipe for instant peace that works for me.  It's quite simple and just requires that you pay attention and remain aware of your thoughts.  Here it is:

Ingredients:

* One part of staying in the present moment (the now)

* One part of minding your own business

* One part of positive thoughts and words (eliminate the negative thoughts and words)

Mix all ingredients and serve on a plate of gratitude. 

To enjoy this recipe, simply notice when you are feeling anxious or stressed and ask yourself these questions: 1. Is this my business?  2. Is this happening right now?  3. Is this a positive or negative thought?  Once you get clear about this, remind yourself of at least one thing that you are grateful for to supercharge your peaceful feeling.

Enjoy your peace!

Life & Business Coach Stephanie Ward is the author of the FREE special report “7 Steps to Attract More Clients in Less Time” grab your copy, plus free monthly business building tips, at: http://www.fireflycoaching.com.

November 01, 2007 in Choice, Gratitude, Peace, Present in the Now, Thoughts | Permalink | Comments (0)

Guilt as a Boomerang, Not a Frisbee

Mpj040490400001We've all probably heard that guilt is a waste of energy and a destructive emotion.  So why do we fall prey to it so easily?  Why don't we just refuse it?  Easier said than done sometimes.

I thought of a metaphor for guilt that may help you 'say no' to it the next time it gets thrown your way.  Imagine someone is throwing a Frisbee to you, the idea is that you catch it.  This is what happens with guilt, someone throws it to you and right on cue, you catch it.

Now imagine that the person who is trying to send you some guilt is throwing a boomerang instead of a Frisbee.  It flies right past you and back to where it belongs, with the person who sent it.

Guilt only works if we accept it.   If the person who is trying to send you guilt sees that you are no longer willing to 'catch it' - they may stop throwing it your way.  And even if they don't stop, you don't have to catch it.  See guilt is a boomerang, not a Frisbee!

Life & Business Coach Stephanie Ward is the author of the FREE special report “7 Steps to Attract More Clients in Less Time” grab your copy, plus free monthly business building tips, at: http://www.fireflycoaching.com.

May 31, 2007 in Choice, Courage, Guilt, Peace | Permalink | Comments (0)

A Twist on The Three "R's"

Mpj040024500001Maybe you've heard about the three R's: Reading, Writing, and Arithmetic.  Well, those are very important and good to know.  And I've got three new R's that I think you'll like much more!

"Don't forget the three R's: rest, replenishment, and reflection." - Beth Mende Conny

What do you need right now?  Could you use a little rest?  Do you need to replenish your energy?  Would some reflection bring you more peace?  Choose one, or all three R's, and take action!

Life & Business Coach Stephanie Ward is the author of the FREE special report “7 Steps to Attract More Clients in Less Time” grab your copy, plus free monthly business building tips, at: http://www.fireflycoaching.com.

February 22, 2007 in Peace, Rest, Thoughts | Permalink | Comments (0)

Inner Peace for Busy People

Images76Are you a busy person?  Are you always rushing around with a giant to-do list that never seems to get done?  Maybe you think being busy and inner peace are mutually exclusive.  Good news, it is possible to be at peace and still be highly productive.  Success in life isn't defined by moving at warp speed.  Who knows, you may even find that you can get more done when you are at peace.  In any case, you will enjoy your experiences much more!

Check out this movie to get some ideas about how you can find your inner peace: http://www.consciousone.com/friend/index.cfm?PID=194

Life & Business Coach Stephanie Ward is the author of the FREE special report “7 Steps to Attract More Clients in Less Time” grab your copy, plus free monthly business building tips, at: http://www.fireflycoaching.com.

July 10, 2006 in Peace | Permalink | Comments (0)

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